Miss B Tales

Stories from the middle school trenches.

Help!

I’m beating myself up over not being a good enough teacher!

I don’t get my grading done quickly enough!  I’m not challenging the kids enough!  I’m not teaching the right things rigorously enough!  I’m not e-mailing parents enough!  I’m asking too much of the kids!  I’m expecting too much without enough reinforcement!  I’m a giant time-wasting asshole who shouldn’t be allowed in the classroom!

But also the kids aren’t smart enough!  The parents aren’t supportive enough!  I’m not paid enough!  I don’t have enough time!  I never wanted to be a teacher, anyway!  Everything sucks forever augggggghhhhhh!!!

How do you get out of the negativity spiral?  How do you find balance and still feel like you are doing a good job?

5 months ago
  1. fabyanninha answered: the guy will throw his head resting on the pillow a little calm .
  2. marajadejk answered: Focus on the positives, and sometimes you have to leave your work at school. Keep a bright spirit and the kids will catch it. Enjoy quiet
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  4. engmaj answered: Parents need to be patient. Remember grading is time consuming don’t stay up all night doing it. Ask an experienced for pointers on lessons
  5. tantalizingtidbits answered: I feel this way a lot. I just remember I don’t remember a lot from high school and I am a very smart person. I just hope one kid gets curious
  6. tomesaway answered: The way I keep my sanity is to pick my battles and take care of myself. Get enough sleep. Eat regular, healthy meals. The rest will come. :)
  7. iamlittlei answered: Have some wine/beer/chocolate, go to bed early, and remember that you can only do what you can. The kids are going to be fine.
  8. wolfoftheblackrose answered: “The kids aren’t smart enough” that line just made me lose all sympathy for the original poster.
  9. gigifoundatardis reblogged this from missbtales and added:
    OH MY GOSH SOMEONE IS INTERNET-TELEPATHIC AND READ MY THOUGHTS. Except like two lines from this, but other than that,...
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  11. coloursinaflower reblogged this from missbtales and added:
    You can’t do everything and fix everything at once. So pick one. Just one. Which one bugs you the most, and then make a...
  12. duckfoot75 answered: It looks kinda blurry because I look at it through the bottom of a glass.
  13. missmeedow answered: Sme time totally by myself with no one around, getting to read a great book or fanfic and eating a bowl of ice cream in bed wth the heater on
  14. novicephoenix reblogged this from missbtales and added:
    Sorry I was cut off: Take a breath and take some time to rest. It seems counterintuitive, but it really does give you...
  15. novicephoenix answered: Take a breath and take time to rest. It seems counterintuitive because you have so much to do, but what does rest look like to you? It’ll
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